10 Ways For The Muslim To Quit Pornography For Good

Instead of rehashing what's already been said a million times in the NoFap community and elsewhere, I thought I'd talk about the root cause of your addiction to pornography, explain how it works, as well as what tools I personally used to overcome it. And considering how little messaging we receive about healthy communication in sex, it is entirely possible that men who simply watch porn and believe that's how sex should look would be having sex that is quite violent with that particular woman. I don't need to start defining what pornography is to you, why humans are attracted to it and how it affects the brain.

It's true that not all porn is the same, but the reality is that the majority of even the most mainstream porn is packed full of women being physically and verbally abused —and watching it takes a serious toll on the viewer. Because the chemical is naturally released during sex, watching porn triggers the release of oxytocin as well, tricking your brain and essentially bonding you to the computer screen.

Thanks for your blog, I'm a young successful guy who's been involved in personal development since high school and I've noticed that my addiction to porn has always inhibited me. It made me stay up late sometimes not even sleeping throughout the night and also made me take a few steps back in terms of self image regardless of how much I listen to motivational audiobooks or attend seminars.

Starting in my mid-teens, it wasn't unusual for me to spend an hour or two at a time (sometimes longer) sitting in a chair staring at a computer screen, clicking from one pornographic image to another, on a relentless search for the perfect scene to help get myself off.

Now that porn is out of my life, I'm starting to be truly attracted to women again. Porn is a negative influence in your life, and an easy way to start feeling happier and more free is giving it the boot. In short, pornography often brings with it increased secrecy, guilt, and deception in the lives of porn users, and feelings of pain, shame, rejection and betrayal of trust in the hearts of those that they love the most.

I'm not some three hundred pound guy who can't talk to women and watches porn five hours a day with 2 terabytes worth of material. The first part to quitting porn is you really have to want to quit porn. This, combined with how we are wired sexually as men, the ease of consumption and how we form habits in our brain makes porn one of the most powerful addictions on the planet.

I have a major addiction problem with anything fun or feels good including watching porn. If you're serious about quitting porn, you must believe that you CAN. George measures how long he goes without watching porn in streaks” and believes giving it up is twice as hard as quitting heroin.

What makes the difference I think is how they actually connect with the porn woman, just watching or engaging.i think that it is important at the beginning of a relationship to make it clear, or to talk about how a woman would feel if it goes any be honest,as a woman i do not need to watch porn to climax, fap porn happens in my head but it does not mean that it makes it less legitimate.

I had to be strategic about cultivating new behaviors to take it's place in my life - to fill the void - and I needed to practice healthier ways of meeting the very real needs that I thought porn was satisfying. Steve There is no doubt that viewing porn is traveling down a dangerous path—and it's not just a bad habit or a poor life choice—face it!

This is why you need to be honest when you decide to quit pornography, and have decided to tell Allah about it. Now, you need to embark on a new lifestyle that will secure you perseverance and steadfastness in abstaining from pornography (and other evil deeds).

Pornography ruined my life, but I have finally broken the addiction after much suffering. It also was very helpful in showing the high toll that using pornography can have on a man's life. Your porn habit can isolate you from valuable social time with friends and the shame that comes with watching porn can cause you to be distant at social gatherings.

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